'Love' is the word which rules the world, steals the heart, makes you cry, forces you to laugh. So powerful but yet so serene, so tranquil so quiet. Love, the most expressive gesture of our life can speak as well. It is love that tells you how much someone cares for you, it makes you relaxed when your heart is broken. It is love that wipes your tears and brings a smile to your face. However if this heavenly feeling of emotion is not expressed in an infallible way then the commitment besotted with it gets bamboozled. When you love someone it is essential that you comprehend what the eyes speak, what the gestures reveal and what the actions convey.
Gary Chapman in his book, 'The Five Love Languages' has tried to bring out that hidden secret which is known to all but not understood and practiced by any. He says that sometimes although we express our love in a tender, affectionate and ardent way we fail to understand what more is required. As for example he writes ; He sends you flowers when what you really want to talk. She gives you a hug when you really need a home-cooked meal. This lack of articulation in expression alleviates the undercurrent which flows between two persons. In this book he gives solutions with the right principle and right language to use in order to be expressive.
According to him the five languages of Love are
Quality Time : In this life where everyone is racing against each other, we hardly give time to our dear ones. Hence Gary Capman says however busy the schedule is always find a time to say a few words of love. It really heals the pain.
Words of Affirmation: This plays a very vital role in any relationship. Gary says that if you cant be true to the person you love, you can never be true to yourself.
Gifts : Gifts though materialistic makes one feel special. Not necessarily should be the costly crystal and solitaire gifts, a single red rose could be good enough to express all your emotions.
Acts of Service : Helping each other in small works makes a lot of difference and helpd developing the relation.
Physical Touch: A small hug, a caring touch and a supportive hand holding works wonders.
'The Five Love Languages', a gospel that makes you fall in love once again. Reading this book will not only help you rectify loopholes but also encourage you to enhance your strong points. This book helps in the transforming and maintaining relations with a meaning, confidence and expression.
Know more about how to love better and maintain relationships in The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman; You can get this book at www.coralhub.com.
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